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How do I get Over Someone that Ghosts Me?

Dear Sydney… How do I get over a girl that ghosts me?   In order to answer this question, I must first address the two differing meanings of the term “ghosting”.  1. The act of either disappearing off of social media altogether, or disappearing from a specific person on it. This could mean a sudden lack of activity on media such as Snapchat, Instagram, Facebook etc.  It could also simply mean reading texts/messages but not responding to them, or not answering phone calls. 2. The act of completely disappearing out of someone’s personal life without a notable rhyme or reason. … Read more

How Do I Confess My Feelings Without Getting Hurt?

Dear Sydney… I have a huge crush on this guy, but I don’t know how to tell him without getting hurt…I mean, what if he ends up rejecting me?! Please help.. Confessing feelings is something I’ve had a bit of experience with. I’ve had things go the way I wanted, but I’ve also had it go the other way plenty of times. And from dealing with both ends of the situation, I can assure you that no matter what, pain will not kill you and it will not last forever. If things feel right and you want to tell him how … Read more