Ask Sydney

Dear Sydney...
I have a huge crush on this guy, but I don't know how to tell him without getting hurt...I mean, what if he ends up rejecting me?! Please help..

Confessing feelings is something I've had a bit of experience with. I've had things go the way I wanted, but I've also had it go the other way plenty of times. And from dealing with both ends of the situation, I can assure you that no matter what, pain will not kill you and it will not last forever. If things feel right and you want to tell him how you feel, you should! Even if things were to not go the way you were hoping, if he is someone that truly cares about you he will be understanding of your feelings. And sometimes, it's best to get things off of your shoulders. It will help you grow and develop more. And if things go well, that's awesome! Either way, there are no regrets. Everything is a learning process, and a huge important part of dating and relationships is gaining experience. So keep your mind open, and whenever you feel ready to, go for it!

 

--Sydney J.

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